My Husband Is He Abusive Or Control Freak?

I been out of job for less than 1 mo since my husband is in the military we had to move so I quiet my job. However, I cook 3 meals a day clean and do the launder, go to school full time online and take care of 17mo old baby. My husband is yelling and screaming at me every time I want get my eyebrows done or nails or anything like that. He yells at me so much that I just want cry, he tells me " all you do all the day is cooke clean and change diapers why the **** you need to look pretty for?? I know we have money 'cause I still have checks coming from job since I get 2weeks vacation and all our bills are paid. Is not like I'm spending $ on shipping or anything like that. I'm looking for jobs and I found 2but my husband says well is not good paying as your last 1, is better be a good paying job.What should I do? He wasn't like this when we 1st met he was nice.